That headline is not really the title of a country song or a preview to a book on philosophy.
It is just an old saying of mine and others regarding the fact that there are at least two things you cannot command or direct from people, those being love and respect.
You can own a company, run a firm, have a relationship, or whatever, but it does not work if you demand love and/or respect.
When these come our way, they are given voluntarily, and all we can do is accept them and be humble about being loved.
That brings us to Denver broncos safety Brian Dawkins.